Divorce stats are rigged to include those with multiple divorces. Do your own mental survey of people you know.
They are rigged. Both ways.
Do you think everyone who is married is happy? Many do not get divorced to be able to stay around their kids. Many cannot afford to get divorced/divorce raped.
And God help you if you are on marriage 2 or 3, your chances of divorcing are 61% and 73% respectively.