Don’t forget this, from the episode where Spock loses his mind over the girl.
“Someday you may find that having is not as much fun as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true.” - Spock
Spock got a couple of women. He fooled around with a women who lived in a cave and the other after he got shot by some flowers. There was a 3rd who used him to get the man she really wanted.