What is interesting is that the guy had been “engaged” to his girlfriend for over 9 years. Total side story, but interesting none-the-less.
I know one of these long term engagement guys. I asked him and he doesn’t really like the woman he lives with. They are both “comfortable “ but not in love. I told him he really should fish or cut bait. He doesn’t want to go through another breakup.
They are both on disability checks if they got married the amount of their disability check would go down,