Some one has gone all mushy. But you do fit the stereotype, somewhat.
Your point is well taken. Many of us here have remarked about the physical beauty of conservative women compared to the relative ugliness of their leftwing counterparts.
A free spirit is a free spirit, not troubled, neurotic, depressive, addictive and suicidal.
To me, a free spirit is someone living their own life by their own standards and untroubled by others’ rules and limits, and happy in cutting their own path.
Marilyn Monroe was seen as an unhappy victim of other people and died at an early age, not from a bad body part or a climbing accident but from a crushed spirit.
Marilyn appeared before cheering American soldiers and remarked later to Joe, “You just can’t imagine what it’s like having thousands of people cheering for you!”
Joe said, “Yes, I can.”
You probably want to reconsider. Dimaggio was an abuser. He smacked her around regularly. He was scum. His love was torture.