What region of the country did this happen? You must be surrounded by Karens.
Ithaca, NY. Cleveland, OH. Columbia, MO. Columbus, OH. Palo Alto, CA. Washington, DC. Mountain View, CA.
I lived, worked in, and traveled to a lot of places. There was a common denominator among all these interactions.
In fairness, some white guys had bad behavior, too. A white bully tried to beat me up in 7th grade, a white drunken sailor in a bar in Mountain View, CA tried to pick a fight with me, and a white drunken Swede didn’t like the fact that this girl was doting on me at a party in Woodside, CA and he tried to pick a fight with me, too.
But there was a real difference in implied savagery and actions between the races.