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First of all Just STOP trying to impose your moral values on your daughter by blackmail. It won't work. 19 years of age is a little late to teach moral values.

Second. There are two options with her roommate. They get married and he is your son in law or they break up and it was short and sweet relationship. Either way you are on a losing track.

I've been here. You have already screwed up and caused hurt which neither can repair without some work. When you push anyone into a corner, they will come out fighting. You want a wimp for a daughter?

Think ahead for heck sakes. Down the line is she going to have an education that you can be proud of. If she gets sick and has a hospital bill no one can afford, are you going to be happy with your decision?

Lastly, are you upset at her or are you looking for a way out of this expense. You are not wrong for feeling either way if your relationship supports your feelings. Just ask your self, why.