The rest of us is the members of the dominant culture in the USA for the last century or so. And yep, I am considering running for office in Nevada! ;-)
The reason that women who enjoy a sexual tryst with a young male are treated differently then males who enjoy a sexual tryst with a young female is because the dynamics of the situation are different, and most people don't consider it as damaging to the younger party, and to the social fabric.
They may in fact be wrong, but its the way they feel. I share the sentiment in most cases, I admit. I think most people do because there isn't a notably outcry about these.
That is, we encourage younger males to be sexual and discourage younger females to be sexual. And as I have said there are numerous reasons for this dynamic.
"I am considering running for office in Nevada! ;-)"
I knew it!!! Best of luck to you.
I am part of the dominant culture, believe me. We are simply arguing differences of opinion regarding some details.