I posted something else on another thread,
but to be honest, I really believe that many men don't WANT to know women...at least not beyond the Biblical sense.
I mean, how do you explain a guy, that after 30 years of marriage, throws out all their 'old' bedroom furniture as a secret surprise to buy ultra-modern glass and chrome and mirrors for the bedroom.
Only to have his wife divorce him because he hadn't paid enough attention to know that the 'old' furniture was priceless antiques his wife had spent 30 years finding and refinishing with a loving hand.
Same for the guy who never let his wife live in a warm house....so she left him after 30 years too. And he STILL doesn't understand why.
So knowing how you like your coffee, your favorite color, your best friends name, your ideal vacation etc are markers of if he really wants to know YOU or just certain parts of your anatomy.
Agreed.
Sad, but true.
PS... I like my coffee with just a touch of moo. Is that so hard to remember?! If I asked you that in ten days, you'd probably remember it. Oy Vey!
Stop ranting, DD... okay! I'm feeling better.