Oh puh_leeez. If there were a hundred million in this gallexy and half of them were more advanced than us, we would have found some hint by now. Maybe there is something more unique about our little planet than what the experts assume.
You made my point and don't even know it...
I found the thread intriguing, and your comment was one of the most thought-provoking. Based on a quick search, we are about 28,000 light-years from the center of the Galaxy, so the Milky Way is approximately 60,000 light years wide. What if, 20,000 years ago, there was a civilized planet on the "opposite side" of the galaxy where the technological era lasted 5,000 years. (We don't know how long a fully-technological society will last.) Say that they were fully-technological exactly 20,000 years ago -- let's make wireless electronic communication (radio) the mark of a fully-technologized society. Imagine that within a century they start broadcasting a signal spaceward to alert any other possible technological societies that "We Are Here". Imagine that they broadcast this signal for the full duration of the existence of their society.
Under that scenario, the signal that they started to broadcast 20,000 years ago would still have 40,000 years to travel before we could detect it; and at that point that society would have passed from existence 55,000 years ago.
While I like the idea of SETI, I think that the distances involed make detection of anything highly, highly, highly unlikely, even if this single galaxy had hundreds of technological societies.