I am 57 and have crossed the country more times than I can count, the Atlantic 18 or 20 times, plus trips into Africa. Baby's are a part of life and flying has become common, it is not for you to say where they can go.
Until they were 6 or 7 I would never take mine into a fancy restaurant. For years it was pizza, Mexican food and spaghetti restaurants. I didn't want to bother others, but flying is a different matter.
OH and I took my first flight at 3 months, from Houston to Baltimore where dad played for the Colts.
I fly in shorts because it's more comfortable. Why be cramped in a too-small seat, in a hot, stagnant airplane, AND still be wearing very uncomfortable clothes in the process?
So's flatuation but I try not to subject everyone else to it
Is your dad still with us? If so, how's he feel about the Colts getting into the Super Bowl?