[RobRoy]

>>No reason at all you can’t stay friendly with ex’s.<<

You’ve obviously never seen “When Harry Met Sally”.

If you’ve slept with someone, once one of you finds another, the relationship needs to be permanentaly elimintated. It is disrespectful to your current spouse.

I am reminded of that scene with the ex-boyfriend in Best of Show...

[Mr. Jeeves]

If you’ve slept with someone, once one of you finds another, the relationship needs to be permanently eliminated. It is disrespectful to your current spouse.

Not if you are both mature adults. If the fragile ego protection rules of the child's playground are still in force (as they are in most of American society) then, yes.

[Melas]

I can see why we disagree. I haven’t formulated marital advice based on movies I’ve seen. I’ll place a lot more value on my personal relationships, including remaining lifelong friends with my first love, which must be going on 30 years. All the times we slept together hasn’t hurt our friendship. Then again what do I know, I’ve never even seen When Harry Met Sally or Best of Show.