Hmmm.... Clint Eastwood, Tommy Lee Jones and Lee Marvin come to mind. Rough when they need to be....soft if necessary and they clean up real good. Course....those are only a few of my "crushes". *chuckle*
I've never run into any woman on whom I'd had a crush long ago. I can't imagine how that would feel.
You usually have this vision of what they were and looked like the last time you saw them. Kind of a shock when you see them 30 years later. This guy I met hadn't changed that much. A few lines and a bit heavier....but what got me, is his immaturity. Creepy.
There are a few women that I admired back in college, but I always thought that they were pretty mature back then. If they regressed, that would be scary. I'm not sure that I've seen any woman that I'd known in high school since I was in my 20's. I can't imagine seeing one whom I thought was pretty back then.
Are there any characters on TV or the movies who come close to meeting that description in your mind?
Yeah, Gerard Baker of the Phantom of the Opera and Dear Frankie (and now P.S.I Love You) swoon!!!
What a cutie he is!