THANK YOU! That’s exactly the point!
Guilt before innocence.
We are all reduced down to the lowest common denominator. I figured that out when our girls went from private Christian schools to public in the 6th and 10th grades. Couldn't have water bottles because it MIGHT be vodka. When my daughter left her lunch box in the car, I couldn't take it to the office for her because I MIGHT have put a gun or drugs in it (the office recommended she BORROW money from someone). etc etc...