[George from New England]

I am not enough of a ham to know what band is best to use (remember my gear is essential led packed up).

How do we pick a good frequency. I think a first, second, third choice list for frequency/band.

Any ham operator that is better versed and has used the airwaves for years could really help at this point.

[bossmechanic]

Perhaps start by introducing yourself to your neighbors.
If your need is to go hi-tech, fine.
But don’t ignore the obvious.