“So it seems we’re in agreement”
Somehow I doubt it!
Roswell and the Marcels illustrate the point that even good people with good intentions can make subjective errors in perception. This is sometimes referred to as the “Rashomon effect”, after the famous Japanese film.
I get it, and I'm applying it to you just as you're applying it to me. But I'm also smiling, so let's just agree to disagree.