[jenthejedi]

Having the child first prepares you? So you’re saying that most 35 year olds aren’t more prepared life experience wise/ financially to raise a child than your average 25 year old?
Yes of course love, morals and so forth are important but being stable financially/knowing more about life in general matters greatly as well.

[Woebama]

So you’re saying that most 35 year olds aren’t more prepared life experience wise/ financially to raise a child than your average 25 year old?
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Yes, I’m really saying that most childless 35 year olds aren’t more prepared than most childless 25 year olds to have a child. 25 is a full adult, with more energy, likely, than a 35 year old. Having the child is the maturing experience, not the passage of years.

[Valpal1]

Yes of course love, morals and so forth are important but being stable financially/knowing more about life in general matters greatly as well.

No, love and morals matter completely, the rest, not so much.