I don’t believe that. Anyone can come to know Christ. Sometimes it takes a tragedy for them to ‘see the light.’
But those who know Christ often suffer devastating loss.
Sons of lovers of Christ die. Wives of lovers of Christ die. Husbands of lovers of Christ die. Often in overwhelmingly tragic circumstances with overwhelmingly tragic consequences for those left behind.
Don’t let’s set a false standard. “Rain falls on the good and on the bad” (the just and the unjust). That’s Scripture.