Posted on 09/22/2009 4:47:52 AM PDT by strider44
I would have flunked any statistical research paper if I'd chosen a sample population this badly.
Written by researchers Cindy Meston and David Buss,
I've always thought of David as a man's name....
Increased blood flow to the skin gives a youthful appearance, works for me.
Yeah the use of college age is interesting. Perhaps the general theory was women in the age bracket have more sex than any other age bracket. Could be true I guess. Seemed that way when i was in college. So the theory would be to ask the women who are having the most frequent sex what their main motivations were.
Yeah...sorry about that. Unless dave is a woman. Hell one of my wife’s best female friend’s name is Charles...I was also looking at the author of the Fox story (a woman).
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Again...I think the study was intended to ask a group of women who are having the most sex. Though there may be some exceptions, the women living in as you say a “godless, hedonistic, leftist pit of waste” are more than likely having more sex than your typical married woman.
“How about having an orgasm? Thats a novel assumption..”
Yeah one would hope. However, and maybe some female freepers can back me up, isn’t the percentage of women that can reach orgasm through intercourse much lower than the percentage that can reach it through “self-induced” means?
I know I’ve read it before. Many women seem to reach orgasm easier through oral sex also. So...The quesstion is valid overall. If a woman knows she can’t or usually doesn’t reach orgasm through intercousre with a man, what motivates her to have sex?
Us married folk in monogamous relationships would like to think the reasons are good - to please their partners because they’re in love, promote intimacy, etc. However, some of the reasons may be less than good - view it as a chore or marital duty that has to be done to keep the peace, want something in return (like their husband to clean up around the house a little more) etc...
So which is it? I would like to think that most freeper gals fall into the first category. I also think, and I have no scientific study to back it up, that some women just don’t like sex very much. They still want a husband and a marriage and kids etc, they just don’t get a ton of enjoyment out of sex. Some women reqally do enjoy sex of course. But it’s undeniable that the percentage of women who don’t is vastly higher than the percentage of men who don’t enjoy sex that much.
So...freeper dudes out there that are unmarried - my only advice as a happily married man is find one of the women who actually enjoys sex. If you don’t and get married anyway, just be prepared to spend many a night with rosy palm and her five sisters.
Through my experience, there are women who actually enjoy sex. Probably more than want to admit it. There is a social stigma that women who say they enjoy sex are “loose”. And there are more than ways to skin a cat so to speak in a relationship. One doesn’t have to get too creative for both people to be happy. Not all men have the motto “he who comes first wins”, if you catch my drift.
Men have sex IN ORDER TO feel emotionally closer to their spouse.
Women has sex WHEN they feel emotionally closer to their spouse.
bttt
ROFLOL!!!
Men have sex IN ORDER TO feel emotionally closer to their spouse.
Women has sex WHEN they feel emotionally closer to their spouse
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Well yes in some ways, but I really believe in “general” as a WOMAN, that women give sex in order to get emotional support and Men give emotional support to get the sex.
Don’t hate me for this opinion, it is just the way I see things. :)
I’m sorry you’ve run into the wrong kind of woman.
Sounds to me like we’re saying the same thing, or close to it.
And I’d never hate someone just because of an opinion.
“Im sorry youve run into the wrong kind of woman.”
You misunderstand. I love my darling with every fiber of my being. I just get grumpy sometimes.
Naw, it has to be one of those other ten things...
Seems to me, given the sample involved in this survey, the report should be titled: “Why Tramps Have Sex.”
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Thanks for pointing this out. Every NYT science article ends up discussing evolution. And all it really “proves” is that what is is.
If intellectually shallow people ceased to be convinced that “evolution” provides a “reason” to reject God, they would throw evolution over in a minute.
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