Sorry. I did a search for “soap” and nothing came up.
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/2362238/posts?page=80#80
I have no problem with a natural born parent or legitimate long term supporting step-parent conducting this punishment.
I do, however, object to Mom’s boyfriend doing anything to the discipline the children. With or without Mom’s approval.
It’s well documented what “the boyfriend” is capable of.