I've been reading the BOOK, and found that not to be correct...
Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus:
If anyone speaks, he should do it as one speaking the very words of God. If anyone serves, he should do it with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ. To him be the glory and the power for ever and ever. Amen.
NIV Luke 17:3
So watch yourselves. "If your brother sins, rebuke him, and if he repents, forgive him.
Those who sin are to be rebuked publicly, so that the others may take warning.
Preach the Word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage--with great patience and careful instruction.
This testimony is true. Therefore, rebuke them sharply, so that they will be sound in the faith
These, then, are the things you should teach. Encourage and rebuke with all authority. Do not let anyone despise you.
“...correct, rebuke and encourage—with great patience and careful instruction.”
Is that what you think you are doing?