They start with...no they don’t. Who taught you that? i think we always expect more from our complement and get it in many ways. Their eyes, their smile, their wisdom and the things they do etc,etc etc,etc but the origional point was true. You gotta beat your way in before the others and find a decent woman to have a child with. Marry her. Love her to pieces where there is no thought in her mind that there will be another to help her defend and protect what you build together as good as you can. Equal but different.