[Hegewisch Dupa]

No, you weren't looking for an apology - I didn't mean to come off like that, sorry (jeez - I'm apologizing more than obama lately). But I'm thinking neither of us wants FR to be an embarrassment, and so I was just trying to justify to myself, but still in your ear, my behavior. I didn't mean to be snotty to you at all; you clearly have the best interests of the site at heart.

Post 16 was a crappy way to defend things - however, the good thing is there was no more attempt as far as I can tell to use this approach after the first try - which is cool.

[trisham]

I see. I’m sorry things didn’t start off well between us, but beyond my concern for the children in these situations, I have a concern for this site and its owner.
It is my understanding that there have been recent incidents, and that is very distressing to me.

Some of the threads that I see here almost seem to be inviting comments that will make this site and its members look bad.