When i grew up in the 70’s it was called a lifestyle choice,they wanted to be different counter culture kind of thing...
When i look a Hollywood pics of gay couples especially the women one person always looks like a man,Ellen,Maddow..
It weirds me out that something they did not want to do ,they are now emulating it in every way,the male female look wanting kids,getting married etc...
Does that make sense?
In the 70’s the gays couldn’t deny they were freaks and counter culture as it was so unacceptable back then, which is why gays stayed in the closet. Now since the desensitized image of who gays are due to Hollywood and the media, gays are more brazen and want equal rights as that of traditional heterosexual married couples. I think the man / woman roles in a gay couple; also looking for children and being considered legally married may also be part of this ploy to get their lives looked upon as “normal” by the powers that be to make legislation happen to give them a leg up.