“He is supposed to have purpose for me, but I don’t know what it is. I hope He has something for me other than work 9-5 until I’m dead. “
God gave you a brain so you could find a purpose for yourself and give Him credit later if you feel like it. There will be no epiphany from God, despite what many will tell you, and you can wait a lifetime waiting for one.
If you are 29, have worked a productive job for a while, and have a little nest egg - well the world is your oyster.
The only suggestion I’d have is to travel someplace or places and see how other folks live - to some other country preferably.
You may find that you have a different perspective and appreciation for what you see now as a boring life.
If you don’t have an exciting enough/meaningful enough life - it’s not God’s fault, not anybody elses fault - it’s yours.
Remember this time, you may look back at it fondly should you be blessed with teenage daughters one day in the future.
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