I have a real problem understanding why a girl would want to wrestle...or for that matter parents who would allow their daughter to do so.
My son wrestled so I do have some understanding of the sport and disagree that this contact made is not grouping or foundling or whatever word you want to call it. It IS a “contact” sport....where hands reach to all places for the holds. Why would a parent even think of putting their daughter in that type of contact sport!
If a man and a woman grappling with each other to score points in a match has some sort of sexual connection, then one could make the argument that two men grappling with each other is somehow 'gay' (which my non-wrestling friends would occasionally raz me about).
This isn't a 'contact' sport in the same way football or boxing is.
The risk of injury due to the strength difference in men and women is much lower.