The only exception might be the playful type wrestling such as kittens do, parents tickling their children and the like.
Wrestling simply is not an appropriate activity for teenagers of the opposite sex entering their hormonal peak.
I will not address wrestling between (supposed) homosexual boys, because I cannot comprehend the mindset other than to say that most boys have no real clue as to homosexual tendencies unless actively recruited or encouraged by other perverts, Hollywood and others who have a vested interest in not allowing them to develop normally.
At one time, homosexuality was correctly classified as a mental illness before the pink mafia took over the mental health profession.
LOL Must be nice to be eternally 12.