You're right. I didn't grasp it at first because I don't associate "virility and masculinity" with "teenage Moslem emo-boi," but clearly there's a subgroup of women whose ideal "man" is an adolescent son they have sex with.
I wonder where this woman's three teenage children have been through all this fiasco. Safe with their father, I hope.
...you're a mature, grounded adult who views the world through a lens of moral clarity :-)