My wife and I dated for about 2 1/2 years before we got married. The first year we weren’t exclusive. After a year we one day looks at each other and decided our wild oats were sown.
We have been married for 21 years. Our rules were simple. Friday night is guys or gals night out. Saturday night was date night. Sunday depended on whether the Giants were playing the 4pm game.
Excellent (and despite the injuries and screwups, we're still in first place!).
Er, I mean, that sounds like a very healthy marriage map.