Posted on 08/15/2011 8:41:01 AM PDT by TheWriterTX
“... we are always a team”.
We are almost at our 21st anniversary and I was asked recently by a newlywed neighbor what I felt made a couple strong. I said that I felt you should view yourselves as “book ends”. Each other has their back against the other to watch for things that may come their way and they can support each other no matter how many books (obstacles) are put between them. If the opposite book end becomes a bit weaker then fine. You hold everything up till that person gets stronger. It is about respect and understanding that each person has their own strengths and weaknesses. You accept them and work together as a team.
I had a smiliar class in college called "Courtship and Marriage". A methodist minister taught and brought up the "f" word and in the late 70's that was still kind of shocking. He kept saying it and claiming it held no meaning if we didn't allow it to. One day after really going on about it this older lady appeared at the back of the room (large lecture hall) and he stopped to introduce his wife, who was joining him for lunch that day.
One funny guy loudly said, "Professor, let's ask your wife what she thinks of our discussion about words and meanings"..... he replied, "Class dismissed!"
Very nice analogy - bookends. Thanks!
I would like to see someone point out that technically, Michelle Obama has been submissive to her husband in that his job comes before hers. She had to leave her job and home to follow his career, uproot her children and mother and her job is merely a support to her husbands. lol The liberal heads would spin!
MArried couples submit to each other time to time else the marriage is a joke..
The question politically speaking is silly... made by silly people for silly reasons..
Hey - great minds think alike, know what I’m saying? It always takes us forever to get music finished. We have a backlog of more the 30 songs to do. There’s such a learning curve on the recording stuff and things just take time. Hopefully, when it’s finished, it’ll be very pleasing to the ear.
That’s a funny story about your professor. It’s do as I say or rather say as I say until someone I respect comes around and I’m not talking dirty to them.
Good analogy!
Our 22nd is next week. I am the final authority in my house - after appropriate consultation and deliberations with my better half!
It’s funny... It doesn’t seem possible we were married 22 years ago. It seems more like five or ten.
But that’s the way of it when you are married to a wonderful person, I suppose.
“I hope you’re not suggesting that such a case would be an exception to the command to submit to one’s husband. That a woman who is “unequally yoked” to an unbelieving husband is exempt from the command to submit to him. “
Submission in marriage, a biblical precept, means that the woman recognizes headship in the family unit. The husband is the head of the household and the spiritual leader. The wife is his helpmate who stands equally before God with him. The most expressive example of this in practice today is to be seen among the Plain people like Old Order Mennonites and Amish. The women are hardly wimpy, begging things. I have never seen a family act in concert as I have seen among these people. Their headcoverings are a visible display of their belief that women are not the leaders of the household and that they defer to their husbands.But the role of the female is considered equally important to the family and recognized as such. What I was trying to say in my earlier post, is that when Christian women marry unbelieving men (something they are warned not to do) then the whole family hierarchy goes out the window. A woman is to submit to her husband and he is to love her as Christ loves his church. Yes it is hard to submit, but if your husband is a loving man, it certainly makes it much easier. Most young people, however, have little understanding of this biblical concept; the men do not want to take responsibility and the women do not like the word “submission.” We live in an apostate world.
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