My cousin told me she would never spank her children, because she felt it was wrong. One day I saw her and she was so sad. I asked why? She said for the first time she had to spank her children and she rememebers how she vowed she never do it. (I just smiled inside)
Never let her see that smile, LOL!
But her children will be better for a bit of corporal punishment.
Didn’t kill any of us who got it from loving parents who knew how to apply it.