There in lies the problem! Hate the sin love the sinner is is a load of manure. Is a serial killer any less repulsive because being is not bad just the behavior. Maybe a little over the top but if we insist that those who perform a repulsive act are not in and of themselves repulsive where do we draw a line? Sex with animals, children, murder, rape where is the line? Homosexuality is a repulsive physical act and one of a select few that the bible mandates stoning. People who continue to act out repulsive behavior are repulsive and churches that tolerate this because we must love the sinner nolonger have any moral authority.
I see that the bible called stoning for immoral sexual ACTS, not immoral sexual desires.