“I suppose it might... if I actually “loved” him. Which I don’t. Sorry.”
No, it’s the presumed mutual love of a 3rd party that makes one ascribe noble motives to the fellow admirer - motives the fellow admirer himself never voiced. Sorry.
You've officially "lost it."
Nobody here has even mentioned a "Third Party, much less are any involved in this discussion "enamored" of the concept. Hang a sign around your neck, please: "OUT TO LUNCH"
So sorry.