See post #14
Gods anger is a consuming fire. In my opinion, it obliterates, blots out. It may even blot the memory of those that lived and were judged, from those that are justified.
What about Lazarus and the Rich Man in Luke 16?
Isn’t that a picture of torment for the evildoer?
I'd like to reply to a few of your points.
First, the use of various words - they have root meanings as you noted, and they have actual reference to real places. The New Testament makes use of them to describe something else, using familiar terms.
You ask how one reads into the text eternal suffering through fire. I'd say one doesn't. The text itself presents that meaning. I referenced a number of texts that indicated, by the use of some of those words you mentioned, a never ending suffering. Isaiah 66 for instance, or the words of Jesus in Matthew where 3 times He repeated the idea of never ending suffering.
Hell is an interesting word used by the English translators, after all they had to find an English word. But because the original meaning is limited that doesn't mean that they couldn't extend the meaning. That's pretty common. And not just for translators, but users of language in general - meanings get extended all the time, it's a fact of language.
I'd say that when Gehenna was mentioned, the idea was that by talking about something everybody in Jerusalem was familiar with they could be told, what's going to happen at the final judgment is a never ending Gehenna for the wicked.
It's the common place technique of using familiar things to explain things not so familiar. A Metaphor as it were.
About Sodom and Gomorrah, the names of those cities are used to stand as a refernce to the people of those cities. It's another common figure of speach where one thing is used to indicate another thing because of some relationship. Of course the actual cities aren't buring anymore. But the condemnation of the people, that's a different thing altogether.
As to God's character. It is impossible to read either the Old or New Testaments without noticing that God describes Himself over and over again as jealous, angry, vengeful, a consuming fire, fearsome among other things - all of which most people would say are pretty negative. But the simple fact is that they're present, and not just a few instances, but many are found in Scriptures. Many instances of Scriptures passages where God declares that He will punish His enemies are found as well.
And the fact that God also is self described as "love" doesn't require that there be none of the so called negative. There is no "bi-polarity" involved here. God does offer a free gift of salvation through His Son, Jesus. And God also says that any who reject His Son will face His wrath. And there is no conflict of any kind that God is both loving and also ready to exact vengence, which He has called His - and not ours.
That cartoon figure of an old time preacher you present doesn't change the language of the Bible. And no doubt there are those who've not preached anything but anger. But there you have a case of abuse not negating right use.
Perhaps the most striking thing that establishes God's hatred of sin is that Jesus, God in the flesh, being made a little lower than the angels, suffered torment and death and being forsaken on the cross. When I think about that it is no surprise to me that God speaks in terms of eternal punishment.
And that is exactly the reason for condemnation, rejection of the free gift of salvation bought by the blood of the Lord Jesus Christ. John chapter three says this plainly. Jesus is talking and says,
"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil." (John 3:16-19)
This tells us plainly that the condemnation is not for the sins but for rejecting Jesus. It's not our sins that we're condemned for, it's for rejecting the salvation freely offered by the passion of Jesus, His shed blood, and death on the cross. We are condemned for rejecting Jesus.
Just a word of thanks for the benediction of peace that you give when you say Shalom. And thank you for challenging comonplace ideas, too much is taken for granted. I find in myself and in others that for years we just assume something, and it's not until someone challenges it that we really think about it.