my neighbor across the street is divorcing. One day a few months back she unloaded her sad tale. He had a mistress and he actually asked the same thing, could he keep her and stay married. Honestly, men are insane. this particular jack@$$ was a dope-smoking libertarian, so it’s not a stretch to hear he wanted a pet mistress to keep around the house.
Men ARE insane-my ex wanted and asked for an open marriage, too-I find it amusing that they only ask for that after they have been caught bed-hopping...
You know, women in Europe are happy to be wife #1 and are more sophisticated about men’s baser needs. ;-)