And that is why you are unmarried. You will never get a woman with that attitude. You need to ask them out. You need to make it happen..not God.
I cannot write anything to you guys without you misunderstandning it! Of course I have to ask them out and I do. I have no fear at all of women or anyone really. But I need to wait for the opportunities to be brought to me which they do on occasion. Then I must act, yes of course.