No Brainer--only a snapshot of what is sure to follow. Find another BF!
He should file bankruptcy FIRST, eliminate the debt and then proceed to marry.
I would be more concened about the acounability partner BS rather than the action debt.
I can’t believe any of this is really about the money, she has already decided he is not reliable and is just looking for justification to call it off.
Who’s going to pay for this wedding? :>)