Posted on 03/14/2012 9:30:42 AM PDT by Morgana
When a man can get pregnant and give birth to a child, then and only then does he have the right to any part of the decision.
Until then, respect the womans decision and shut the F*ck up.
Always remember the woman is the one who will spend the next 18 years raising the child, the man maybe if he sticks around or if he doesn’t, he may actually pay his child support, however I wouldn’t recommend having 3 childern at once to find out.
***Never trust anything from an anonymous author.***
Good point. The article is extremely well written by someone with a very strong pro-life ethic and I agree with your observation that this is not his own experience. Perhaps it is based on a couple that he knows or had heard about. The story was so disturbing that he felt compelled to illustrate the cowardice & immorality from both the male and female perspectives.
Even if he is lying about being the ‘father’ his narrative is still powerful.
Jews and couple Christian denominations do not spell out God. You’re off base on that one.
The husband’s desire to please his wife has out weighed his desire to please God. A shame that the wife’s vanity and selfishness has so severly damaged this marriage. Gone is the hope, trust and respect. It is now replaced with pain, guilt and resentment. That is no foundation to build a family on.
That child is as much the man’s as it is the womans. And there are plenty of reported cases where it is the mother who skips out on the relationship so don’t paint with just one brush. Unfaithfullness to the family and one’s responsibilities runs through both sexes.
Abortion is all ways the intentional killing of a human being and is against God’s law and if we as a nation had any morals, it would be against our laws as well.
I could not keep reading. Oh my loving Gd, this is so atrocious.
My first amnio, the doc (in Europe) was another source of cruel. He poked The needle into my 3 mo along baby’s hand and crowed, “look how he pulls away!”. That was my first mama grizzly feeling in my life. I wanted to take. Him. Down.
Selective reduction is murder.
There are ways to do IVF correctly, where each embryo is cherished as potential life. Put back only the number of embryos you wish to carry. If your family is complete, donate your other embryos to another family. I’m living this and loving it.
Not spelling out His name is only for things that will be deleted or thrown away. It’s a sign of worship. If you were going to keep it forever as in a book of prayers, you can write it out.
Nederland is a good example of this.
This is why I am not a big fan of fertility drugs. It is trying to play God.
If a husband and wife are unable to conceive, there is likely a reason for it. We shouldn’t turn to weird science.
The way this is written, it sounds like this is a couple in their late 30’s or early 40’s who first focused on education and career building, and then decided to have themselves a designer-baby for their vanity or prestige.
Realizing that they are unable to conceive because they are past the ideal time, they turn to science and the fertility doctor. The result is triplets.
Wifey only wanted one child, so she will just simply discard the other two. We live in a selfish disposable society, where perpetual happiness is the goal, even at the expense of life.
Husband is the very definition of a sack-less pansy. No wonder he couldn’t get her pregnant.
Rather than telling the vile woman that he will not stay with her if she aborts two of his children, he goes along with it. Now we are supposed to feel bad for him.
Did I miss anything?
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Very true.
Fathers have a natural right to protect the lives of their pre-born baby daughters and sons. And fathers are not deserters by default, as you falsely claim.
I believe GOD knew what he was doing when he made this woman barren. He knew she didn’t have the heart of a mother. She was probably worried about the stretch marks she might endure if she carried more than one.
How her husband can ever forgive her for her decision is beyond me. How can you stay married to someone you don’t respect anymore?
Thank you, Jim. That post is repulsive.
>> shut the ...
Your brain! It’s severely underdeveloped!
You've got that right. I know a woman(went to school with her and her second husband)who not only ran off and left her child, she left him with his step-father, who adopted him and finished raising him. In fact she sold the custody rights to my friend(the step-father)for $10,000. My friend never told his son about that part. It was bad enough that she simply left him without even saying goodbye.
Many women are far worse than men, many aren't, but for ggwyo to say men have no say in the child's welfare, before or after they are born, is just BS.
This is the first time I’ve seen it. Why does it bother you?
I just get tired of stories being posted repeatedly. This is one of many. Why do you ask?
It's always good to see liberalism crushed, isn't it?
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