Prayers for your happiness. God has plans for us that we may not comprehend at the time but can blossom with the fullness of time.
As you can see from my screen name, I’m a woman, married 15 years. And I will say bluntly there is no way you can be in love with someone you just met. Lust, sure. But you know nothing about her. On my first date with the man who’s my husband, it was different from all other first dates, but I was not in love and neither was he. Not then.
And killing yourself working out so you can look 15 years younger? Dude, I say this with kindness and respect, but I have to be blunt——you should grow up. Why is a man your age consumed with looking like a kid? Age catches up, no matter how hard you try to outrun it. Make peace with that. I don’t mean let yourself go-—not at all. Exercise for good health most of all, and to look WELL——not to chase youth that’s already departed.
If you want lasting love, marriage, that kind of thing-—chill out. Let it come, don’t try to force it. You’re old enough that you should know all this stuff already. Stop acting like you’re 15 years younger than you are and take things slow.
That wasn’t intended to be a flame-—just straight talk. Best wishes to you.
Join the Secret Service. See the world.
This girl is looking for a green card. Yer up sucker.
I will be turning 42 this July. I have never been married and have no kids.
For the past 5 years, I have taken myself OUT of the “dating game” (now a days, it’s more like the “sex games”) and have been celibate.
If I am meant to find the one, He will guide me. Until then, I will remain the happy gal (for the most part) because I no longer live with the pressures or manipulation of men trying to bed me.
If they couldn’t “have me” within 2-3 dates, I was dumped. Never mind all the slapping and “get off of me” I endured while dating. They seemed to have grown a few extra arms at the end of our date! All this free sex and everyone doing everyone has put such a crimp on a once innocent dating ritual.
The NAGS have ruined dating for all girls. If you’re not a slut, then something is wrong with you.
To them, I’m one effed up gal!!! The NAGS can take their misery and stds and shove em you know where.
You seem to be wishing to acquire feminine candy. Have fun. These young girls should know the score. Would I want my daughter dating you? Hell no. But there are lots of girls with authority or daddy complexes.
This is not a life partner love situation. This is you wanting some sort of fantasy toy. You are seeking subservience. With that said, it’s your life so have fun. Don’t make any children.
Best wishes and congradulations! Yeah, I know and understand, I’m in the same shoes as you.
Sysiphus....
Are you an alcoholic? I ask because alcohol is a depressant and you sound depressing depressed to me.
I am going to ask you a question. Does she fall outside your usual norm?