I am going to send this to my Roman Catholic Priest..a former Anglican Priest
The Priest who served at the Anglican Parish in the UK after my Priest left there..divorced his wife, had a sex change operation, and stayed on as a Priestess.
The ladies at that Parish had a lingerie shower for him after his sex change operation.
I’m rewatching the classic television series “I, Claudius” about the first 3 emperors of Rome. Your story makes the Caligula episodes look tame.