Are you claiming that a coach who controls playing time should be able to coerce a woman into a lesbian relationship in exchange for playing time?
I know of at least four female women's coaches who were fired for having sex with players; along with substantial monetary awards to the victims.
I'm saying it's adults and it's not the same as raping children.
An adult who willingly engages in gay sex to get playing time is a variation on a prostitute.
Calling her a victim is a bit much. It's no different than a secretary effing her boss for a raise.
The victim in that scenario is the person who didn't engage in the shenanigans, but lost out on playing time or a raise.