"Yo! Yo! Yo! I got me some soul food right here! This is it, brother! Real soul food! I got some tofu, I got Belgian endive, I got flax seed -- lots of flax seed, my man! And lookee here -- we got some grapes!! Hmmmmmmmmmm! Just like my Momma made!"
Some people just like to redefine things and pretend that their use of language is just universally accepted.
You can tell yourself that Spike Lee is a great director. But he isn't.
You can tell yourself that Maya Angelou is a great poet. But she isn't.
You can tell yourself that soul food is healthy. But it isn't.