Dad finds porn on his 13-year-old son’s computer, suggests better porn sites

lsn ^ | 9.28.2012 | John Jalsevac

[bleach]

I thought I went blind, until I realized my glasses steamed up. Little more revealing than my dad’s ADAM magazine’s I used to sneak.

Thing is when my dad caught me, he did the same sorta thing this dad did. He would leave them out where I could find them. Of course early 60’s porn is mainstream TV these days.

[Emperor Palpatine]

I can see both sides. Yes, we all want to protect our kids from this sort of thing.

But I was also once a teenage boy, (yes, I know its hard to believe), and I too did the same thing...only I hid my dog-eared “Playboys” and “Penthouses” under the mattress.

Boys at that age are what they are, and when those first courses of testosterone start flooding their system...well...you know.

The thing is, don’t condemn either dad or sonny-boy here. I turned out as a very happily successful law-abiding and tax-paying adult. and no doubt so will this kid.

[cherry]

I reviewed some of your comments on the forum here...you were all up and arms against Sandusky, you said you were a "Christian" and wanted to nuke the Satan worshippers....

when does morality,good character, decency, respect and dignity for human beings get personal with you?.....

[Morgana]

I see foxpro’s point of view. You have to think a lot of parents are worried their kids will turn out gay. The fact the kid was looking at women put dad’s mind to ease that Junior was not wanting to fudge pack.

Did dad handle it correctly? By our standards no. It is clear that this dad finds nothing wrong with porn so there fore he sees nothing wrong with his son watching it. He is more concerned that his son in heterosexual.

You can just bet this story would have had a different ending had dad found out Junior was watching queer porn.

[Secret Agent Man]

I wouldn’t be proud of him. I would understand the curiosity. At the same time I am surprised dad didn’t find a sheet from his son’s public school talking about masturbation techniques and sites for porn.

[death2tyrants]

[GeronL]

Bad parents raise bad future adults

[Morgana]

With that said I would not be surprised if the porn site that he visited as www.plannedparenthood.com

[puppypusher]

That kids father should wipe his drive as punishment.Unfortunately the kids today know more about getting around passwords and such then their parents.So Parents need too keep an eye on what sites their kids are visiting.

[FoxPro]

even alluding to what you and your wife do is very disrepectful, something a 17 yro would do....

God created sex.

It is my opinion that God created sex to show us what it is like to be a creator (children) and what heaven will be like.

Good sex is a keyhole look into the mind of God.

It is a form of worshiping the creator.

Wholesome sex is the physical act of playing out the first few verses of the book of Genesis ever time.

This is what we should be teaching our sons.

And I did. My sons are better men than I, because I told them this.

[RichInOC]

Better porn sites? I’m not sure there is such a thing. I’m not sure there ever was.

[A.A. Cunningham]

and what heaven will be like.

You'll be in for a big surprise if you get there.

"And Jesus answering, said to them: You err, not knowing the Scriptures, nor the power of God. For in the resurrection they shall neither marry nor be married; but shall be as the angels of God in heaven." Matthew 22:29-30