LOL...I used to have neighbors and we’d sit out back and try different wines, BBQ, share the latest news, scandal and gossip. We really became quite *the* wine snobs. Good thing they moved away, b/c I might have become an alcoholic! LOL Don’t get me started on single malt Scotch. :0P
When my kids were young, they were allowed to have a sip of wine with a meal. I thought that that would take the *mystery* out of drinking. Now that they are grown, none have a problem with drinking. I don’t really know if that is the reason why.
You did the right thing. You taught moderation (a sip), safe experimentation (parental supervision), social context (dinner with family), buffering of effects of alcohol (wine with a meal). You provided the proper context for drinking, and the children learned well. I think the kids who grow up with alcohol problems aren't introduced to alcohol the right way: it's something off-limits and forbidden until they're 21, then they go wild and become irresponsible with it.