I was raised a Catholic, but I'm not one anymore.
I left for many of the same reasons you're citing against American Judaism. It really got to the point where I couldn't have my good name associated with child molesters, practicing sodomites, Gaia worshippers, and pro-abortionists.
At some point you're known by the company you keep.
I'll tell you what, Yehuda. You say good-bye to Judaism like I did to Catholicism. Then we'll talk.