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To: PapaBear3625
A woman who is deeply in love with you will also desire you. Second clue: if she's not willing to have a high enough frequency to keep you satisfied, if she's not willing to make an effort to make you happy, then she doesn't love you.

Maybe. Do bear in mind that physical problems may prevent a woman from desiring a husband whom she truly does love. After childbirth and/or after menopause, sex can become quite painful, and the medication used to improve this situation has side effects like heart attack, stroke, and cancer. It's hard to force yourself to have sex when it hurts like mad and even causes damage to delicate tissues. It's harder still to choose to inflect potential death on yourself for the sake of having sex. I have seen many, many medical records and have heard from many patients that they are frustrated, they're unhappy, they know their husbands may leave them, but a prior history of cardiac problems or cancer precludes using hormones to fix the sexual pain. This is far more common than you'd think.

41 posted on 12/28/2012 3:17:12 PM PST by ottbmare (The OTTB Mare)
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To: ottbmare

Why, in more civilized times, men over 40 usually had a second, younger wife if he could afford it.


42 posted on 12/28/2012 3:23:40 PM PST by central_va ( I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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To: ottbmare
Do bear in mind that physical problems may prevent a woman from desiring a husband whom she truly does love.

There's more than one way to keep a guy sexually happy.

45 posted on 12/28/2012 4:47:02 PM PST by PapaBear3625 (You don't notice it's a police state until the police come for you.)
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