Many men here can tell you how they saw themselves, their nation, their relationship with society and their role in it, and how much it meant to them to progress through life and into marriage and into the role of husband, and then father, and then what a shock it was when the female decided to move on.
It turns out that the female owns it all, you were just visiting, that never was your home, your children, your lifestyle. The shocker is to learn about the kids.
Even dads with money and position and lawyers, at best, get visiting rights.
/johnny