I totally agree with you and you know they will only want you for your money and will probably have a young stud on the side - spending YOUR money. A man with a trophy wife is a fool in my opinion.
When I was younger, women in their 40s and 50s looked incredibly old to me and unattractive. But as I age to that level myself, I find myself much more attracted to women in my own age group then younger women, who I now see as immature and high maintenance. Besides, it would be overly creepy for me to have a relationship with a woman young enough to be my daughter. I don't know how other guys do it.
I just read your home page. Haha! SamAdams76 for President!