Since when are 180 people invited to a baby shower? And I’ve never been to a baby shower where there are men present.
The last time I gave a shower, it was for the wedding of one of my daughter’s friends. The bride asked that her fiance and his friends be invited. Big mistake. We lived outside of town on top of a mountain. The “men” collected out in the parking lot were generally disruptive and I worried about all of them getting home safely down the twisty mountain road. The men just spoiled the whole evening. Never again.
Who sets up the tables, carries stuff in, loads stuff up and hauls out the trash? I have been invited to baby and wedding showers for the aforementioned reasons.
It is kind of like my father used to say about putting boys to work on the ranch. If you put one boy to work, you'll get one boy's worth of work. If you put two, you'll get the work output of half a boy. But if you put three, you'll get a whale of a lot of trouble.
That's why God intended us to pair up with one woman. So we'd get proper supervision.