Well the young woman and her fiance were civilians so your concern seems cohfused.
he will come out
He had 6 days to surrender peacefully. He had no intention of coming out.
He was surrounded for six days? Don’t think so.
He killed cops and their families. He knew, and everyone involved knew, that the police would not take him alive.
I am not saying I am sad he died. I am not. I am saying that there is a double standard that is very clear here.