I hear you, although i run FF 19 with about 80-110+ tabs open (i try to get back to them) , and OpenOffice with about 15 docs open for more editing, and Thunderbird with multiple email accounts, using a 2005 Sony PC with 2.8ghz 64bit dual core cpu, and 4gb ram and a flash drive using ReadyBoost under W/8 pro 64bit.
However, the Intel mobo will not allow more than 3.38 gb or ram to be available, which i did not know when i upgraded from XP32 bit for 29.00. So i usually have about 1gb of free ram (and a page file on a separate drive)
FF used to use a lot of cpu cycles (and after restarting it i have almost all my free ram back) until i install the NoScript extension. Sites like Amazon send it up.